Thursday, October 25, 2007
Window of opportunities
"When one opportunity closes, other windows of opportunities will open"
I've read about this over and over. Strangely, though, I would forget about it once faced with a difficult situation. The first thing popping out my mind would be, to react, which is an immature thing to do. Taking a time for a while, backing up from the problem I am in, I would be able to think clearer.
When I've set my interest on something, I would study it religiously; every factor involved. I would devote my time just to make it happen, or gaining knowledge about that. For example, football. I would pay a notice for every player's movement, with or without the ball; watch football games every week; and play football every weekend with my friends and scream on top of my lung when we played badly.
I prepare a set of plans for my life. Plan A, plan B, C ... to Z. I was discussing with my colleague, when our venture isn't gonna work out, we'll go to Bali and become a guide. And everyday, we can enjoy every second of our life in Bali.
The same in relationships, I'll channel my energy to make it work, to make things happen. Every bit, every detail. I'll make little surprises, prepare a plan A for weekend, and plan B if things don't work out.
When things hit the wall, my first reaction is to become furious. There's a state of denial that I have missed out something, or rather miscalculate a possibility. During this state, I would close myself for any explanation, and what I seek is reasons. Why this... why that...? Why can't it be like this,... why can't it be like that? Then, that's the sign which I have to take a deep breath, take my time to think further, and see other opportunities that are opened.
In the end, I believe that this world will give the best thing for us, and we just can't see the result instantly.
I've read about this over and over. Strangely, though, I would forget about it once faced with a difficult situation. The first thing popping out my mind would be, to react, which is an immature thing to do. Taking a time for a while, backing up from the problem I am in, I would be able to think clearer.
When I've set my interest on something, I would study it religiously; every factor involved. I would devote my time just to make it happen, or gaining knowledge about that. For example, football. I would pay a notice for every player's movement, with or without the ball; watch football games every week; and play football every weekend with my friends and scream on top of my lung when we played badly.
I prepare a set of plans for my life. Plan A, plan B, C ... to Z. I was discussing with my colleague, when our venture isn't gonna work out, we'll go to Bali and become a guide. And everyday, we can enjoy every second of our life in Bali.
The same in relationships, I'll channel my energy to make it work, to make things happen. Every bit, every detail. I'll make little surprises, prepare a plan A for weekend, and plan B if things don't work out.
When things hit the wall, my first reaction is to become furious. There's a state of denial that I have missed out something, or rather miscalculate a possibility. During this state, I would close myself for any explanation, and what I seek is reasons. Why this... why that...? Why can't it be like this,... why can't it be like that? Then, that's the sign which I have to take a deep breath, take my time to think further, and see other opportunities that are opened.
In the end, I believe that this world will give the best thing for us, and we just can't see the result instantly.
From my hollow room at 2.24am,
Made
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